Perception & Reality
Do
the women, or some of them, forge an idea of their would be husbands
based on their fathers or a brothers? Do they expect the same
personality traits and, hence, the behavioral patterns as they observe
while growing up in their childhood? If the answers to these questions
are in affirmative, it may mean heart-breaks when the reality is much
different. Heart-breaks for either or both. It may still be okay if such
heart-break is followed by a relation-break but, if they stay together,
it may be a recipe for a disaster. Why a General's daughter should bring upon a lot of stress to her
officer husband when he is just not cut out to be a General in the army? It can only result in a disaster if he can't bear it!
I would love to debate on this topic. Thanks.
